After 25 years out of school, I am back in school (and more than halfway through) in my doctoral program. Balancing parenting, work, and school is a lot, but not impossible. Here are my strategies for making it all work:
Time Management
Time management is the linchpin of balancing work, school, and parenting. Consider creating a detailed schedule that allocates specific time blocks for each responsibility. Prioritize tasks, set achievable goals, and make use of productivity tools and apps to help you stay on track.
Seek Support and Communicate
Don’t be afraid to ask for help. Reach out to your partner, family, friends, or even your employer and professors. Effective communication is key to gaining support from those around you. Explain your situation and needs, and you may be pleasantly surprised by the assistance and flexibility that can be offered.
Do Your Homework with Your Kiddos:
We have study tables every weeknight and I study alongside my kids. I enjoy learning with my kids and modeling good study habits for them as well. I am also there if they have questions about their homework, and yes, there have been times when I have asked for their help with my homework!
Make Quality Family Time Count:
When you have limited time for your family, make it meaningful. Engage in quality activities and connect on a deeper level during your available moments. This can strengthen your bond with your children and partner.
Self-Care is Non-Negotiable:
Amidst the whirlwind of work, school, and parenting, don’t neglect self-care. Take time to recharge your batteries with activities you enjoy. Whether it’s reading, exercising, or simply relaxing, self-care is crucial to maintaining your physical and mental well-being.
Remember Your Why:
Lastly, always remember why you’re taking on these responsibilities. Whether it’s to provide a better future for your family, achieve personal goals, or set an example for your children, your “why” can provide the motivation and strength to keep going.
Balancing work, school, and parenting is undoubtedly challenging, but it’s a journey that many have successfully navigated. By practicing effective time management, seeking support, setting realistic goals, and prioritizing self-care, you can find harmony in your busy life. Remember that this journey is a testament to your determination and dedication to creating a brighter future for yourself and your family.